Negotiation with kindness

How to negotiate an equity deal that feels fair to both sides — and lasts.

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A good negotiation ends with both people looking forward to working together. That's the standard on Build Kenya.

Anchor on the ask, not the person

State what you need and why. Let the investor respond to the plan, not to you personally.

If the first offer isn't right, say so kindly, and propose an adjusted version — for example, a smaller amount at less equity.

Look for creative middle ground

Consider staggering the funding across milestones so both sides feel safer.

Consider a small board seat, quarterly reporting, or a right to be consulted on major decisions instead of extra equity.

Key ideas

  • The goal is a deal you both want to honour
  • Staggered funding reduces risk for both
  • Non-equity terms (reporting, consultation) can bridge gaps

A gentle next step

Write down three concessions you're comfortable making before your next call.

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